Relationship Girl

My name is Chasity Nwagbara and I am "relationship girl". Yes.. you read that correctly..Relationship girl. What is relationship girl, you ask? Well, relationship girl is the type of female that does not know how to casually date because after date number three.. We go together or else we go apart. I would love to be one of those girls that can casually hang out with a guy they "kinda" like but that has never been something I have been able to do. The thought of getting dressed up and putting on my over priced lipstick from Sephora to go hang with a man who's not even programmed in my phone correctly doesn't sound like a fun time to me. It sounds like a waste of a Free People outfit and Free People aint cheap. To be fair, my first relationship lasted ten years, my next relationship lasted four and then I was single. SINGLE,SINGLE. Like..not looking, not caring and minding my business while telling my business by way of this fabulous blog. I realize that people who casually date are never fully single though. For instance, the sweet girl that lives above me is dating THE WORST guy. She knows he's the worst . Whenever they stop talking she comes over for wine to talk about how much of a mess he is and then two days later his smart car is parked outside. Her reasoning behind the madness is the fact that it's casual. I'm like.. How do you casual??? I am the type to wear heels to a baseball game. I don't casual AT ALL. I don't even let guys text me after 9:30pm because WHO DOES HE THINK I AM, JEZEBEL?? PLUS, I'M SLEEP!! I always wonder what the details are for casual dating. Does it mean that you can't do holidays together? Birthdays? Does it mean that you can date multiple people? Who has enough conversation to date multiple people? All I know is, I know my lane. My lane is committed relationship and matching Christmas pajamas. That is a good time! To those of you who do casually date.. how and most importantly why?