Rush Hour

I'm going to keep it one hundred and five with you all today. Patience is a gift that not many people have. I have my impatient moments as well so when I see signs of impatience (especially when it comes to dating) the only thing I can say is.. Wow that's gotta hurt. I don't know if it's because of the weather or because people simply aren't praying for enough patience but as of late everyone seems to have a cRUSH, everyone lives on the top of Mt RUSHmore and everyone is desperate to find their own personal RUSHell Wilson. My thought is this, life is so much more enjoyable when you plant seeds in your single season. That way when the right person comes along you wont have to scurry like a roach and try to get yourself together. Honestly, it's easy for me to say because I specifically asked for deliverance in this area of my life. When I got honest with God and truly asked Him to take away my impatience in the area of companionship, He took it so fast it scared me. It was like He snatched my wig and the only thing I could do was walk around proudly in a wig cap. Don't get me wrong I do desire to get married one day but If that day is not tomorrow, the next day or the day after that.. ya girl is still gonna be alright. Trust me, It wasn't always like this. Last year, I sat on a couch and cried my eyes out to my friend Keisha because I wanted a whole husband. She looked at me and said "Don't you think God would give you a husband if you were ready?". I wanted to punch her right between her big Jamaican eyes. She was making too much sense but at the time sensible and reasonable were my enemies so I carried on depleting my bucket-o-joy and filling it up with feelings of inadequacy. You couldn't pay me to go back to having that thought process. So now when I see that impatience in other women I feel nothing but empathy and A need to tell them to relax. I know people don't like to hear things that could help especially when you feel like you have control of your own life but here's the gag.. Your life is not your own. It's the Lord's and if he told you to wait, stop trying to make fetch happen, stop wasting this beautiful time/season and stop trying to make God remove Adam's rib early. Your soulmate might still be getting worked on too. Heaven knows that we don't need a Rush Hour 4 starring you and the life that you try to piecemeal together. Save time by enjoying your "You time". It's lit!