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000 Prius Rd. Los Angeles Ca.

  • Miss Chas
  • Nov 20, 2018
  • 3 min read

A couple of weeks ago a friend/coworker told me a story that was so silly I actually purged it out of my memory until early this morning. She told me about how her roommate has been dating this guy for several months. They met online (of course). He seemed like a nice enough guy and after a couple of dates she started to really like him. She then went on to tell my friend that one day he picked her up for a dates she noticed that he had curtains in his car. She initially she thought nothing of it but later she came to find out that he was living in his Prius. Like...actually LIVING in his car! His excuse was that he "likes it". Despite the fact that his car is actually his residence and his place of employment (because i'm sure he drives UBER) she still decided to pursue a relationship with him. As I cackled at the thought of this story my wheels started to turn. I began thinking.. Wow.. women are so doggone desperate. I can say this because I too, have been thirsty for companionship before so I can see the signs from a mile away.

The scenario's may be different but the outcome is still very much so the same. Women after a certain amount of disappointment and age begin to compromise so much that we will take just about anything if it is attached to being able to have a hand to hold. I have witnessed countless moments where women (myself included) have sold our selves short in the name of patience but at the end of the day..Yes love is compromise but it is not a project where we are supposed to help a man find his passion, purpose or in this case a roof over his head. I had a real AHA moment this past weekend after dealing with what I thought was heartbreak. I cried and I pleaded with God for answers. After I had my sad girl moment I met up with one of my very good girlfriends. She handed me a book called I Got You by Rob Hill Sr. When I tell you it blessed my whole life I really mean it. It really put things into perspective and as I flipped through the pages I was more and more convinced that I was not heartbroken. I was relieved AF!! Don't get me wrong, the guy was not all bad but he was not all good either. The ultimate problem was, I found myself in situations that didn't promote growth. Honestly, any relationship where the peak is the pit is not ideal for anyone. I think the same goes for men as well. If you are passionate about success and life and your girl is passionate about not a damn thang it might be time for you to move on the someone who is equally yoked. We have so many examples of real love out here so there's just no way that we should be dating men that live in their cars or men that have imprisoned themselves in their own minds. The great thing about moving forward is the hope that comes with the promises of God. I only wish I could get in touch with my friends roommate and let her know that she should probably stop dating Prius guy so that he can focus and get his life together. I meaaaannnn... Yikes!

 
 
 

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